VietNamNet Bridge - Showing affection boldly right in the classroom, uploading sex clip videos on the Internet, making scenes of jealousy at school, pregnant teenagers ... are the signals of the degeneration of “school love”, which worry the schools and parents.

 

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Haiphong’s pupils show their affection in the public.

 

 

Every evening, people who go to the Nhieu Loc canal bank in HCM City for doing exercise blush-- seeing teenagers in school uniforms kissing and touching each others on motorbikes.

According to many pupils of secondary and high schools in HCM City, only the cowards show their love on the canal embankments or the parks. Making a date in a motel is the best.

DA, a pupil of the Dong Khoi Secondary School in District 1, Ho Chi Minh City, revealed that the milk tea shops near the school are the "Love Paradise" for pupils, especially for those who are picked up by their parents. These tea shops become ideal venues for pupil at the lunch time.

At a milk tea shop near Ong Lanh Bridge in District 1, reporters saw many schoolgirls calmly embraced and kissed their boyfriends at noon.

In the town of Nha Bang in Tinh Bien district, An Giang province, pupils of high schools and secondary schools often gather in groups to publicly show their love at fallows in the Sao Mai new residential area at night.

Mr. Minh, a motorbike repairer at the Tinh Bien bus station, said he once saw two pupils aged 15-16 who were wearing the uniform of Le Hong Phong Junior Secondary School in Nha Bang Town, kissing each other passionately in a sugar cane juice shop in the presence of many people.

"I do not understand why kids fall in love so early and show their low so boldly like this! How could they study?" Minh said.

Mrs. Mai, the mother of a 9th grader in HCM City, told her real story. Her son was pursued by a classmate girl. The girl followed her son all the time. She came to her house after school and even wanted to sleep there overnight. Mai talked with the girl’s parents but they did not care.

Mr. Tran Tien Chinh, Deputy Principal of Thai Phien Secondary School in Hai Phong City, said at his school, some couples were always hand in hand, embraced and kissed each other at public places. They also take pictures together and posted on the Internet. “Some students showed their affection outrageously,” he said.

Recently, when seeing two students having intimate acts in class, a high school teacher in Hai Phong just gently reminded them. However, given that being offended, the schoolgirl wrote some bad status against the teacher. Consequently, the teacher had to explain the case to the school administrators.

"Now, school love is no longer romantic and poetic as in the novels or movies but it is very realistic. The girls prefer to love wealthy boys to keep face with their friends or to receive valuable gifts from their boyfriends," said teacher Chinh.

Chinh said his school recently banned two schoolgirls from school for one week. In these cases, the two schoolgirls scolded and insulted their boyfriends on the Internet because their boyfriends could not give them gifts.

At the Hai Phong Obstetrics Hospital, a 11th grader named Nguyen Thuy H. said that she was pregnant with her boyfriend, who is the son of a garment company. When the girl told her boyfriend about the pregnancy, he broke up and gave her some money for abortion.

"Now it is the trend to have boyfriends at school. If you do not have a boyfriend, your sex would be suspicious. My boyfriend must be a hot boy and his family must be rich,” H. said calmly.

Recently, at Luong The Vinh Secondary School in Tinh Bien town, Tinh Bien district, An Giang province, a 7th grader and her friends beat a 6th grader for jealousy.

The teacher of a primary school in District 1, Ho Chi Minh City said a schoolgirl liked a handsome boy who looked like a Korean movie star. The little girl wrote a letter confessing her love and stated publicly that the boy belonged to her. If the boy did not love her, she would commit suicide.

Ms. Pham Thuy Ha, Principle of Nguyen Van Troi Primary School in HCM City, said a 5th grader confessed her love to her teacher and said if the teacher does not like her, she would quit school.

Nguoi Lao Dong