
A number of videos capturing the happy images of the wedding received 1 million views and 128,000 likes, peaking at the moment when the two main characters received blessings from their parents during the ancestral ceremony.
The wedding, held in a romantic space, was the beautiful ending to a 15-year relationship between Kha Ngan (born 1998) and Kim Duyen (born 1996), who live and work in HCMC.
Duyen said she recognized her sexual orientation from a young age as she only had special feelings for people of the same sex. As an adult, she has a gender-neutral beauty, pursuing a personally strong style.
Ngan also recognized herself early on. She did not come out to her family but instead quietly worked to build their trust. In love, Ngan said she remained firm in her feelings, regardless of external gossip.
Duyen and Ngan met in 2011 when they were high school students. Duyen was the one who made friends and talked to Ngan. However, because Duyen had a distinct appearance and a strong personality at that time, Ngan did not initially have feelings for her.
Over time, thanks to Duyen’s persistence, Ngan reconsidered her feelings. Sharing common interests, they gradually connected, supporting each other in all aspects of life. The two women came to see each other as family.
“School-time love is gentle but deeply etched in our memories. I’m a quiet and reserved person, so when my mother saw me cheerful and open with Duyen, she was very happy. From the moment she knew about our relationship, she never objected or expressed disapproval,” Ngan shared.
Duyen’s family also supported their relationship. The couple remains grateful for the understanding and acceptance from both families.
The romantic wedding
Despite many challenges during their journey into adulthood, they never let go of each other. They see one another as an irreplaceable part of their lives, helping each other grow every day.
In April 2025, Duyen asked both families for permission to propose to Ngan. She even received support from Ngan’s family to create a surprising proposal.
“On a sunny day, with the help of our families, I proposed to her on the occasion of our 14th anniversary. I’m happy that we finally reached this moment,” Ngan said.
The couple’s wedding was held in March. The ancestral ceremony took place at both families’ homes, while the main wedding ceremony was held at a beautifully decorated event center in HCMC.
“We organized the wedding following traditional customs, with all the steps such as the proposal ceremony, engagement, ancestral rites, and wedding ceremony. We wanted our partner to understand how much we cherish each other,” Ngan said.
The wedding was attended by relatives, neighbors, friends, and colleagues. The families prepared more than 40 banquet tables to welcome guests and celebrate with their daughters.
During the ancestral ceremony, Ngan’s mother shared: “Seeing you happy and finding a suitable life partner makes me very joyful and reassured.”
Duyen’s mother said she had long considered Ngan as her own daughter. She expressed happiness that the two had found each other, grown together, and built a stable life.
Duyen’s father could not hide his emotions: “I’m very happy to see you both grow up and know how to love and care for each other.”
Ngan believes that their maturity and stability over time have been the most sincere proof, giving both families confidence to support their relationship. The parents’ tolerance and unconditional love made the wedding possible.
“We chose each other in our innocent school years, throughout 15 years of youth, and will continue choosing each other for the rest of our lives. I hope that in the years ahead, we will keep this sincere love,” Ngan said.
Thanh Minh